....Love....

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 ....Love....

Music by Santos: Teenager In Love

 Santo's Ministries

4 Charity (Love) suffers long, and is kind;

charity envies not; charity(love) braggs not itself,

is not puffed up, 

Does not behave itself unseemly,

 seeks not her own,

 is not easily provoked,

 thinks no evil; 

 6 Rejoices not in iniquity,

 but rejoices in the truth; 

 7 Bears all things,

believes all things,

 hopes all things,

 endures all things.


8 Charity (love) never fails:

but whether there be prophecies,

 they shall fail;

whether there be tongues,

they shall cease;

whether there be knowledge,

it shall vanish away.

 9 For we know in part,

and we prophecy in part

When I was a child,

I spoke as a child,

I understood as a child,

 I thought as a child:

 but when I became a man,

I put away childish things.

 12 For now we see through a glass, darkly;

 but then face to face:

now I know in part;

but then shall I know even as also I am known.

13 And now stays faith, hope, charity (love),

these three;

 but the greatest of these is charity (love).

1 Corin. 13:4-13

 Christ Centered Relationships: Part 1

 Francis Chan

 

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 Christ Centered Relationships: Part 2
 Francis Chan
(this was recorded in the actual service, so you have the introduction, and some missions they are involved in, at the start...so listen all the way to the end)

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 Christ Centered Relationships: Part 3

 Francis Chan

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  ....There is no "if" it is Sin...

      fornication & adultry

             (Scripture references)

"Oh, I love them" yeah but have you told them? Don't just catchum doing something wrong, catchum doing something right, you might be surprised what you really have at home.  Romance is continous, you have to stroke it with words, affirmation, dating them your whole life.  It does not end at "I do".....it is a continous work of art in love.....and if you don't work on it.....? Hum, can not be one sided either....maybe you should ...see whom can shower whom....with love..words, actions, dating....

 "Oh he's so handsome, my soul mate" or "Oh, she's so beautiful, my soul mate"
 Do you remember how in the beginning while dating, how you hung on every word? ...how you could talk for hours?...how when they walked by you held your breath?  That wife......wants to always be "that girl"(know matter how old even in 90's) and that husband...always wants to be that guy...he wants to hear how he is that guy(know matter how old even in 90's)....I was asked by my daughter; "Mom, he has such foolish dreams" I go but...that is his dream...I said "what did you do"....she goes well told him it would not work....I go...wait a minute what was the plan? Daugher; "To build cat cages"...I said; "Well, did you brain storm with him?" Daughter; "What do you mean?" Me;"Well actually I can see a demand for that, and he is willing to do it as a hobby, for now, he can start out small, sale the cages for travel at flea markets, or arts and crafts, or run a ad in the paper" Daugher;"Oh, than I should not have put him down or laughed?" Me; "No, you should never laugh at someone's dreams, brainstorm, come up with a plan, if it will not work, they need to be the one seeing it not you, never laugh at someone's dream, you are in submission to each other, and it says " to love your neighbor as yourself"....do you hate yourself? Daughter; "well no" Me; " did he laugh at your dream of collecting cows?" Daughter; " No, it is part of me" Me; "Ok, than this is his dream, if you want support in your dream, you both need to share in the dream of each other, you are doing something together. If he fails, so what, at least he tried, and he can revamp the plan, right now the problem I see when he sales these cages is shipping, he needs to brain storm to see what plan of action he can do for this." Daughter: "Oh, wow I just thought it was hair brained; lol..." Me: "NO, it is his dream, his heart's desire....and you have them to....if he is your bestfriend that you love, act like it."
Conversation does not kill......it builds....start small and keep talking..... 

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 Romance:  Yes, today things are difficult..but..did you know romance does not have to be expensive?? How about a stroll around the block, at a park. How about calling your fav radio station and dedicating a love song? How about your fav music on stero, and dancing aroung the living room?  How about cooking their fav food?  How about a love note (guys, alot of gals, keep them as a treasure; just write; "I love you"...and sign it.) "Two, of the most precious gifts I received from my guy...was..a Bible (mine was falling apart, it is a gift of eternal love) and a package of gel pens, in every color you can image..for my art...I never had a guy buy me either...I was astounded" I never had a guy be interested in my dream, or even ask me. (the gel pens can be bought at any retail store)".....hum, flowers...how about a single flower each week, it does not have to be expensive. As my guy said; women see gifts as one gift, a dozen roses is one gift to a woman, to a man it is 12 gifts..... If you take your spare change each day and throw it in a box, or gallon jug bottle....at the end of 6 months, 1 year, etc.......you can pay for a weekend, maybe at a bed and breakfast. (What else can you think of that costs virtually nothing? as a gift...sorry not yourself..that is the dessert, and actual gift....hum, think I know you have something you thought of just now)...."understand?.....it is from you....that is the treasure chest of love" 

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 "Ok, going to help you both out" Chapel Flock makes "Comfort Cards"  and some have to do with love..hey, they are free to print...

  "Comfort Cards"

 

 

   One Desire--Lenny LeBlanc

   Love of My Life--Darla Day

   Valentine--Martina McBride

   I Swear--All 4 One

  Everything I Do, I Do For You--Bryan Adams

  Right Here Waiting For You--Richard Marx

  I Don't Want To Miss A Thing--Aero Smith

  Thank You For Loving Me--Bon Jovi

  First Time I Ever Saw Your Face--Celine Dion

  Lady In Red--Chris DeBurgh

  In The Still Of The Night--Walter Santos

  Hold Me, Thrill Me, Kiss Me--Mel Carter

  My Girl--Temptations

  I Cross My Heart--George Strait

  Faithfully--Journey

  Your The First My Last My Everything--Barry White

 There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with   punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love.1 John 4:18

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.1 Corin. 13:4

But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness.  Gal. 5:22

Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins. 1 Peter 4:8

 

  

 
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 Fireproof Marriage

 

Photography and graphics by Spirit Walker; Animations by: Amazing Animations and the Bible/sunlight graphic
Introduction Music by; Santos Ministry (used with permission)